Drama? Child please!

Ever notice those people either on the fringes of your life or even in the midst of it that like to keep drama and chaotic energy flowing?  I’ve been a spectator to it for some time now and one has to wonder exactly what benefit do they derive from it?  Is it that they like the feel of the energy flow and feed from it..possible, but I suspect that for all their bogosity of how spectacular their life is…it isn’t and to compensate for that, they pull others down into the mire with them.  I am not a fan of being pulled into the middle of watching such a show.  First, it violates my own personal ethics of  drawing attention..as any survivor of abuse will tell you..you learn pretty damn fast to stay out of the way and not draw attention to yourself if you can help it.  So if the issue doesn’t concern me, I am out of it, without feeling the need to step into the fray.  Now there are exceptions to every “rule” like if someone cannot protect themselves from a bully, then I might decide to relax that rule..but its a rare situation.  Secondly, I am not into watching people beat each other up even online.  The flame wars and words that are directed back and forth, all the sniping and snarky comments..that is just ridiculous to me..makes both parties look completely ignorant and the energy it sends out is putrid and tastes like shit~those who read such energies know exactly what I mean~.  Third and last, which is probably the most important is that I like to think I am above that.  I try to treat others with respect and expect the same in return.  I have nothing to gain by causing issues in someone else’s life or talking behind others backs..believe me, if I have something to say to or about you..you will know it..it’s how I roll.  So then what to do with all the negative these people place in and around us?  I personally would like to bitch slap them and tell them “snap out of it”~have always loved that scene in Moonstruck~, but in this age of assault charges and lawsuits, that isn’t possible on a physical plane, unfortunately.  I guess we could “kick” them, cross, hex whatever you call it..and that works too, but I usually save my workings for something bigger than an asshat who annoys me.  So what is one to do?  Ignore! walk away, let them know they are less than the dust under your feet in their ignorant attempts at chaos. That  usually infuriates them and causes issues within themselves, and if that makes them ratchet up their attempts, well then I guess it gives one an excuse to kick their ass after all,lol.  We’re always going to have people who infuriate us with their tactics and sly little digs…its just a fact of life. So acceptance of that and allow it to roll off our backs allows us to keep our shields intact and remain centered.  If we allow it to become personal then we have given them power in our lives and I personally have control issues so that is not gonna happen any time soon in this lifetime,lol.  So to those who would like to cause drama..child please…you better come up with something good cause I just don’t have time for your shit.

Peace Out