How do you help yourself?

It’s human nature to want to take the easy way out.  Some people are professionals when it comes to doing that.  I’ve been privy to a conversation where someone had loaned some money to someone and wanted them to pay it back because they were unemployed and needed the money.  Since they were no longer involved with said person , they wanted to force them into doing the right thing, so what to do?  Why  visit your closest metaphysical, botanica, vodou store right?  Even if they are online.  So…this person went down the proverbial list, buying candles, spells, oils, whatever it takes to throw it all together to make this person pay them.  All the while they kept coming back to the proprietor to check and see if there was “something else” they could do because if they didn’t get this money they could lose their place to live.   Apparently this person does readings, doesn’t drive(who in the hell in this day and age does not drive unless there is a medical/age related reason?) Makes no sense to me.(sorry, that’s another rant)  Seriously, while I am not adverse to working to make someone return what is not theirs, if I am worried about my becoming homeless, why not put that energy into a working to gain employment, as well as a few well placed applications?   As I’m reading this wall of text that they are  putting out explaining all of this, I can’t help but laugh .  How hard is it to use some common sense?  They are  reasonably young looking(from profile pix), so what part of J. O. B. do they not get?  They  had some sort of money coming in while with the person who owes them money..what happened to that?  Apparently they also freelance as a tarot reader and according to them are “accurate”.  Really.  Might I suggest reading those cards for yourself.  Don’t try and make them say what you want them to say..really pay attention because even from here, I’m hearing…WAKE THE FUCK UP!  Get off your ass and stop making excuses as to why you cannot get a job, money, find true love.  All I am hearing is this child’s voice come out of an adults mouth with fucking excuses.  Know why there is no true love?  You keep binding these beautiful specimens to you with spells and sex and there is no mutual respect between you.  This is one reason I have no use for those type of workings.  It removes free will, and well, let’s just say that while the sex may be incredible, nothing else will work because they had no intention of staying.  Your free use of such workings(as evidenced by mention of another previous lover tied to you that you now need to sever such a tie)tells me that you have no concept of any ethics magic entails.  So get off your ass and do the physical, mundane work it takes to live as a responsible human being.  Otherwise, it looks like you are getting exactly as you deserve.

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